Understanding Your Sexual Orientation

(This article is based on a classroom interview I conducted with Destiny Nixton, the An American Lady whose life has been transformed by God and today is a preacher of Sexual purity.)

What do you understand by sexual orientation?

I believe sexual orientation is what a person believes he/she is sexually attracted to or what he/she prefers to be sexually involved with.

Tell me, what is your sexual orientation?

I am heterosexual, I am attracted to men.

Is someone born with his/her own sexual orientation?

I believe that it can be a learned behavior.

Did you choose heterosexual or you were born that way?

I was born that way.

Have you learn any other sexual orientation to know which is better?

I have been sexually involved with women before but it wasn't fulfilling enough for me to maintain a bi-sexual or homosexual lifestyle

Can someone be born homosexual or bi-sexual?

No. A person is born to be attracted to the opposite sex.

What do you mean when you say, it can be a learned behavior?

I have heard a lot of people say that, right from when they were born and growing up they have always been attracted sexually to same sex. What do you say about that?

Just like walking none of us remember how we learned how to walk but we know through watching babies grow they learned how to walk by watching other people walk For others, they may have been molested by someone of the same sex or opposite sex so they either conditioned themselves to be promiscuous or dislike the gender of the violator. For me, in songs and music videos and conversations with others who had been involved with the same sex made being with a woman sound appealing or just as good as being with a man. so I became curious and tried it for those reasons.

Is homosexuality a demonic influence or a psychological disorder?

 I believe its demonic influence; people have been delivered from it.

So you mean every other sexual orientation apart from heterosexual is a learned behavior?

I believe being heterosexual is innate trait just like breathing you didn't get taught how to breathe when you were born like you did with walking rather something ingrained in you just naturally made you inclined to do it unlike walking which you had to learn.

Why did you not continue in bi-sexual practice

What is wrong about lesbianism?

Well sexually the satisfaction wasn't the same as being with a man the artificial parts even in masturbation don't achieve what the natural parts do also pleasing a woman didn't bring me sexual pleasure like pleasing a man did pleasing a woman for me was fun and an ego boost even in a threesome it was just fun I didn't get gratification from it so I did it once and never did it again.

Of course biblical lesbianism is wrong it says that we should not lay with the same sex as we do with the opposite but socially a woman can never replace the role of a man no matter how hard we try and you can’t procreate.

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Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor