Friday, July 24, 2015

How to Turn Your Sexuality for Personal Success



(Note: This article is an excerpt from my Sex Seminar held for Teens at Church of God Mission, Bolaji, Ajegunle, Lagos, Nigeria)

Introduction


A lot us as Teen/Youth/Single believes that sexual feelings is bad and is useless to us because we are not permitted to explore and express it in the form of engaging in sexual activity.
But I want to let you know that… this is not true.

God is not a wicked or a foolish God; He is a Master planner and Purposeful God.
He has a reason for putting sexual feeling and drive inside of you even at your young age.

The purpose of your sexual feelings as a teen/youth is not to torment you, frustrate you and make you deviate from the will and plan of God.

I am telling you the truth: You can make use of your sexuality for personal success and profiting even without engaging in any sexual activity.
Our sexuality is not given to us by God only for sexual expression, intercourse or activity alone.
There is more to explore, discover and profit from your sexual energy. That is the purpose of this article.

Understanding the Power of Sexuality

Your sexual life has a great impact on your life and that of your fellow human being.

Everybody has their own unique way they respond to their sexuality.

Sexual energy is also called sexual drive, feeling or urge.

Every human is born with sex drive, urge and energy.
Nobody is created as an ‘Asexual’. If you don’t have any sexual feeling at all, then something might be wrong with you!

As long as you see sexual feeling the wrong way, you will respond negatively to it when it comes.
Sexual feeling is not a sin or something bad.

The reason why many fall into sexual immorality as a youth is because we lack understanding of what to do with our sexual drive.

The negative way of responding to sexual drive is by engaging in sexual activities (e.g. Masturbation, fingering, oral sex, anal sex, zoophilia, vaginal intercourse and so on).

You don’t have to release your sexual feeling for sexual immorality; you can channel your sexual energy into the world of creativity.

Here is what Your Sexual Drive (feelings and thoughts) can bring to you apart from Sexual Pleasure:

1.                  Sexual drive releases you into creative thinking.
2.                  Sex drive brings physical energy or strength.
3.                  Sexual drive can lead to hard work and productivity
4.                  Sexual drive brings inner motivation.
5.                  Sexual drive brings courage and boldness.
6.                  Sexual drive brings self discovery and personality test.
                                                                 
 Here is how to make your sexuality work for you.

One of the greatest advices is this:
Do not let your sexual emotions control you into sexual immorality; but channel it to that which will bring you into personal success, development, greater performance and positive lifestyle.

1.                  Use your sexual drive when it comes for creative thinking and imaginations. (I discover my writing skills in my struggle with sexual feelings. I have tap into unusual wisdom to write articles and poems during times of sexual urge.
2.                  Use your sexual drive when it comes for idea development. You can invent something positive even in times of sexual struggle.
3.                  In your sexual drive, try to discover a Business venture or a Ministry from God that can bring you income and bring blessings and freedom to many lives. (I am a living witness to this.)
4.                  Use your sexual drive as weapon to draw you close to God whenever it comes. This formula has worked for me so much. Let your sexual feelings motivates you to seek God, study your Bible more, increase your life of praying and fasting.

It is time to enjoy God’s purpose for sexuality even as a youth.

Practice these simple principles, and you will enjoy personal success and you will turn your fear and struggle into a mighty tool for destiny release and fulfillment.

To your victory

Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

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