(Note:
This article is an excerpt from my Sex Seminar held for Teens at Church of God
Mission, Bolaji, Ajegunle, Lagos, Nigeria)
Introduction
A lot
us as Teen/Youth/Single believes that sexual feelings is bad and is useless to
us because we are not permitted to explore and express it in the form of
engaging in sexual activity.
But I
want to let you know that… this is not true.
God
is not a wicked or a foolish God; He is a Master planner and Purposeful God.
He
has a reason for putting sexual feeling and drive inside of you even at your
young age.
The
purpose of your sexual feelings as a teen/youth is not to torment you,
frustrate you and make you deviate from the will and plan of God.
I am telling you the truth: You can make use of your sexuality
for personal success and profiting even without engaging in any sexual
activity.
Our
sexuality is not given to us by God only for sexual expression, intercourse or
activity alone.
There
is more to explore, discover and profit from your sexual energy. That is the
purpose of this article.
Understanding
the Power of Sexuality
Your
sexual life has a great impact on your life and that of your fellow human
being.
Everybody
has their own unique way they respond to their sexuality.
Sexual
energy is also called sexual drive, feeling or urge.
Every
human is born with sex drive, urge and energy.
Nobody
is created as an ‘Asexual’. If you don’t have any sexual feeling at all, then
something might be wrong with you!
As
long as you see sexual feeling the wrong way, you will respond negatively to it
when it comes.
Sexual
feeling is not a sin or something bad.
The reason why many fall into sexual immorality as a
youth is because we lack understanding of what to do with our sexual drive.
The
negative way of responding to sexual drive is by engaging in sexual activities
(e.g. Masturbation, fingering, oral sex, anal sex, zoophilia, vaginal
intercourse and so on).
You
don’t have to release your sexual feeling for sexual immorality; you can
channel your sexual energy into the world of creativity.
Here
is what Your Sexual Drive (feelings and thoughts) can bring to you apart from
Sexual Pleasure:
1.
Sexual drive
releases you into creative thinking.
2.
Sex drive brings
physical energy or strength.
3.
Sexual drive can
lead to hard work and productivity
4.
Sexual drive
brings inner motivation.
5.
Sexual drive
brings courage and boldness.
6.
Sexual drive
brings self discovery and personality test.
Here is how to make your sexuality work for
you.
One
of the greatest advices is this:
Do
not let your sexual emotions control you into sexual immorality; but channel it
to that which will bring you into personal success, development, greater
performance and positive lifestyle.
1.
Use your sexual
drive when it comes for creative thinking and imaginations. (I discover my
writing skills in my struggle with sexual feelings. I have tap into unusual wisdom
to write articles and poems during times of sexual urge.
2.
Use your sexual
drive when it comes for idea development. You can invent something positive
even in times of sexual struggle.
3.
In your sexual
drive, try to discover a Business venture or a Ministry from God that can bring
you income and bring blessings and freedom to many lives. (I am a living
witness to this.)
4.
Use your sexual
drive as weapon to draw you close to God whenever it comes. This formula has
worked for me so much. Let your sexual feelings motivates you to seek God,
study your Bible more, increase your life of praying and fasting.
It is
time to enjoy God’s purpose for sexuality even as a youth.
Practice
these simple principles, and you will enjoy personal success and you will turn
your fear and struggle into a mighty tool for destiny release and fulfillment.
To
your victory
Rufus
Yamoah
Sexual
Morality Counselor
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