By
Nsubuja James (a Certified International Sexual Morality Counselor from Uganda
trained by Evangelist Rufus Elijah Yamoah)
The Gap between Two Generations
Think of the old world (generation) in
comparison to the new world (generation), A very big gap/distinction is seen
between the two generations.
Advanced
technologies, knowledge and much more are evident in this new era and we both
pagans and believers enjoy the benefits and suffer the consequences. But think
of Ethics/characters/manners of both generations, one has a decayed morals and
another excelled.
I compare these two generations to a human
body. Imagine a muscular man doing well in life depending on physical
appearance and may be think of A lady whose facial appearance is wow because if
makeup, eye shiner etc but he/she has a kidney problem and lungs are rotting, bones
are etching imagine such life. Or I equate this generation to a village rich
man who has all the necessities of life, but without a child or has one but
deformed. Meaning there is something wrong with this generation.
Question, why?
This generation in the name of Rights (human
rights) has legalized bad things at the expense of good things.
I
grew up in my hometown Kasenge but I remember very well we never saw private
parts of our sisters, and never even noticed that they experienced monthly
periods (MPs). Till recently I realized that private matters became public
issues. This generation of human rights has decorated our streets, Islands and
the like with naked women and men, girls and boys selling themselves at only
1000℅-2000℅ shillings and in portions long and short.
Oh God!!!
The Holy Scriptures teaches us
that "A women shall have their desires from men"(Gen3:16).
But things were exchanged and now men have
their desires from women. Men are men in the flesh but mentally and perhaps
spiritually are women and the vice versa.
Who bewitched this generation?
Check
out your streets, islands, clubs and places of entertainment. Sex on beaches, sex in bars, sex in bushes,
sex Churches, sex everywhere!!! Our technologies do not matter before God and
our rights are not His rights and do they matter before Him. But our
characters/acts matters a lot.
HOW
TO DEAL WITH SEXUAL PROBLEMS IN THE STREETS
The
following if strongly emphasized and revived can help us curb down this vices.
1.
Family factor: following the common slogan, which goes
"charity begins at home" we can mold, potter and set bright future
for our children. Family factor is partly responsible to a great extent for
moral decay of this generation. How our children wear, talk, behave and face
the future is proportional to what parents sow in them.
2.
Religious factor: With this
we always have two common sayings, (a)"The fear of the Lord is the source
of wisdom"(b)"Grow/teach a child the way to take even when he grows
he will never leave it" The only way to achieve those two, sayings is when
we combine the two factors that is family factor and religious factor. Because
before priests teach people how to behave, the parents would have already
prepared their children with teachable hearts. A society with religious people
is likely to a large extent behaved than a society without religious tendencies
3.
Education
factor: In my country Uganda ministers had introduced sex education in
schools right from baby classes to university. To me it’s not bad as long as
you consider time factor, when to teach such and to who? Because these infants
and young students are likely to practice either with their fellow students or
teachers. So what we teach our children especially when they are still young
will eventually mold their future.
4.
Political factor: (a)
Leaders of the countries, villages, and societies determines how the society
will act and respond on matters, example if a country's parliament sets laws
that rob parent's authority over their children, then who will teach them the right
way. In Uganda these days when you beat your kid he/she is advised to go to
police .(But this in my home does not work) why God gave me those kids knowing
that whatever good or wrong thing going on in their lives am 85% responsible.
b) The political climate politicians set in the country whether calm or chaotic
will mold the behaviors of people. Rape, forced marriages etc such will be
determined by political atmosphere in the country set by leaders.
5.
Think also about peer pressure people we
surround our lives with will to a large extent determine how we respond to
matters pertaining life many boys and girls men and women who formerly
religious, were influenced by their friends around them."Good character
distorts good character"
Many more we can talk about but I strongly emphasize the
first two solutions that is Family factor and Religious factor
Sexual morality world is possible...
