“For she hath cast down many
wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her”
--Proverbs
7:26
The concept of Sex comes in
two basic forms.
Firstly, Sex may imply the
gender (whether male or female) a person belongs to.
Secondly, Sex can also imply
a love making penis-vaginal intercourse between two persons.
The word ‘Sexuality’ can be seen as ‘a person’s sexual make up, thoughts,
response, preference, attraction and feelings towards others’.
The Theory of Sexual Orientation
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Sexual orientation involves a person’s sexual feelings and sense of identity.
It has been scientifically
classified that there are several sexual orientations:
Heterosexual: This is when a person is sexually attracted
to individuals of the opposite sex.
Homosexual: This is when a person is sexually attracted
to individuals of one’s own sex. (Lesbian/gay).
Bisexual: This is when a person is sexually attracted to
members of either sex.
Zoophilia: This when a person is sexually attracted to
animals.
You need to know this all
powerful truth:
The World was not created by Science and can never be determine, govern
or directed by Science. The World was created by the Word of God and must be governed by the
Word of God. (Please Read John 1:1-3; Hebrews 11:3).
THE ONLY APPROVED AND PROVEN
SEXUAL ORIENTATION CREATED BY GOD IS HETEROSEXUAL. (Please Read Genesis 1:26;
Genesis 2:18-25; Genesis 4:1).
Note: This is not to condemn those who find themselves in
other sexual orientation. This is only an eye opener that will bring them freedom, victory and
fulfillment.
Sexual Activities is beyond sexual intercourse.
Today, there are many types
of sexual practices…e.g.: Masturbation,
pornography, fingering, sexting, anal sex, oral sex, rape, child sexual abuse, bestiality, internet sex, phone sex,
prostitution…the list goes on and on.
Sexual immorality is not just fornication and adultery.
Sexual immorality means ‘every form of sex and sexuality that is
against the Will of God for humans that is been practiced or engaged in.
What is destiny?
Destiny in a simple term is,
‘the divine vocation that has been
programmed by God for a person to fulfill in this life here on earth. (Please
read Hebrews 10:7; Jeremiah 1:4, 5).
God is the originator and
creator of Sex, Sexuality and Destiny. You can’t talk about these things and
not acknowledge Him. (Genesis 1:27; Genesis 2:20-25)
When I was about to embark
on this unique career in Sex Morality Counseling in 2011, The Lord God told me
plainly that, “THE NUMBER ONE PROBLEM
AND DESTROYER OF OUR YOUTH IS SEXUAL IMMORALITY. IF THEY CAN OVERCOME SEX, THEY
WILL FULFILL THEIR DESTINY”.
The concept of sex and
destiny is
very true.
There is a connection
between a man’s destiny and his sexual response in life.
If people will understand
the impact sex has on their destiny in life, they will never want to flirt or
joke around with immorality.
Your sexual attitudes and
practices (whether good, bad or ugly) will have a direct effect on the fulfillment
of your divine destiny in life. Remember the law of Sowing and Reaping. (Please
read Galatians 6:7-8)
Two powerful case studies in
the Bible are Joseph and Samson.
Two great men with great
destinies; but with different destination and outcome.
Joseph (according to Genesis
39) responded positively by running from every form of sexual pressures and
temptations and he ended up rewarded as a Prime Minister in Egypt.
Samson (according to Judges
16) was a Judge and a Deliverer of Israel but ended up as a public disgrace,
defeated and destroyed because of his flirting and sexual promiscuities.
Listen to me:
Do you want to reach the pinnacle of life?
Do you want to become a super achiever in life?
Flee from sexual immorality…
Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor
(P.S: This article is an
excerpt from a SEX SEMINAR I held in December 2012.)
