The Truth About Fingering Sex

“Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonor their own bodies between themselves”. – Romans 1:24

The act of Fingering is a sexual activity is so common among teens and young adults.

In fact, it is said that, according to some reports, many Christians would strongly refuse to engage in sexual intercourse, but will willingly accept the pleasure of Fingering Sex.

So; what then is FINGERING?          

                                              

Fingering is a simple term, is a sexual act whereby a person places one or several fingers inside someone’s vaginal or anus to give sexual stimulation or satisfaction.

Some facts about Fingering Sex are that:

It is a more common sexual practice for lesbians.

It is a one sided affair when it comes to sexual pleasure. (Girls are mainly fingered by boys)

It is also a practice for masturbation.

The Power of Thought

It is true that the battle of sex and sexuality is a battle of the mind. Our sexual behaviors and actions is mostly connected, influenced and driven by our SEXUAL BELIEF SYSTEM.

What do people who engage in Fingering Sex thinks?

They think it is more enjoyable… (This is crazy)

They think it is safer… (True; perhaps no unwanted pregnancy)

They think it preserves their virginity… (Gush! fat lie)

They think it is a holy alternative to avoid sexual intercourse and still satisfy their sexual passion… (Funny; this belief is common among many young Christians)

Really…You Need to Know the Truth That Will Blow Your Mind

1.      You are not a virgin if you are engaging in fingering sex. (Sound hard, right?). You see, a lot of people who practice this sexual activity think it is an escape route from losing their virginity but never know that it is rather a fast-lane to losing their pride and dignity. Listen; if you think that virginity is only lost when a person engage in sexual intercourse, then you are probably living in ‘Disney World’ and you know nothing about sexual purity and morality. Vagina fingering is medically called digital penetration of the vagina. When this is done roughly, it can lead to breaking of the hymen, thereby losing your virginity. (Maybe you need to carry out your own research!). Of a truth, people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge. (Hosea 4:6).

2.      Medically speaking and health precaution, it may not be good for teens and their physical development. It can cause irritation in the sensitive genital area. Also, remember that unwashed hands can transfer germs when fingering. This can cause vaginal infection. Be careful.

3.      You must understand that every form of sexual pleasure and satisfaction that is not derived within the context of a man and his wife is sinful and immoral before God. As a Single/Youth, you must offer your body as a living sacrifice, but if you want sexual pleasure you should go and get married in other to fulfill your sexual urge. (Please check Romans 12:1, 1 Corinthians 7:1) FULL STOP!

4.      Fingering Sex, such as masturbation, is influenced by an unclean spirit. Unclean spirit is the enemy of our sexual purity walk and it causes us to dishonor our body. It can cause us to become addictive to fingering sex. Unclean spirit always makes us to become sexually dirty, carnal and selfish. In this junction, we must resist and overcome by prayers and feeding on the Word of God which is able to clean and pure.

5.      Fingering Sex can also be seen as sexual compromise. Christian boys and girls are compromising their stand for truth and holiness when they engage in this sexual activity. They see fingering sex as a holy alternative to quench the fire of their sexual urge without hurting God. (After all, there is no place it is written in the Bible that it is wrong!). Listen; if you think fingering sex is the water that will cool off your sexual fire…please think twice!!! (I am speaking from experience!)

6.      Fingering Sex can also be classified as sexual manipulation. By this I mean—for the guys— if you know that you don’t want to have sexual intercourse with a lady, there is absolutely no point trying to arouse or stimulate her sexually. And also—for the ladies/girls—if you don’t want to have sexual intercourse with a guy, don’t let him finger you for your sexual satisfaction. (Note: A guy can be fingered through his anus. Horrible!). Manipulation is wickedness and selfishness. It is an enemy of love.

My Advice…

You want to know my candid advice for people who engage in fingering sex?

CUT OFF YOUR FINGERS!

You heard me well…I said cut off your fingers or if possible your hands. After all, Jesus also gave that same counsel (Matthew 5:27-30).

I found out that, people who do not hands cannot practice fingering sex. Well, for those of us who have hands and not know what to do with them…maybe you should take my advice and cut off those fingers. (What a JOKE!)

I AM JUST KIDDING…

Seriously, if our aim is to walk in sexual purity, we must discipline ourselves and stop this practice.  Less I forget…I SAY I TOLD YOU TO CUT OFF YOUR HANDS…but please change your heart!!!

Live in freedom and victory…Walk in sexual purity.

Rufus Yamoah

Sexual Morality Counselor