Wednesday, July 27, 2016

How to Deal with Pornography




What is Pornography?

Pornography is a sexual activity where a person or people view pictures or videos of naked people who are engaging in sexual activity.

Types of Pornography

1.  Film pornography: It is the act of watching porn through movies
2. Internet pornography: it is act of watching porn through computer/internet
3. Phone pornography: It is the act of watching porn through mobile device
4. Literature Pornography: it is the act of watching pornography through written materials e.g. books, magazine etc.
5. Live Pornography (Exhibitionism): It is the act of watching people physically having sexual intercourse.
6. Cartoon/Artistic pornography: It is the act of watching pornography drawings/cartoons
7. Group pornography: it is the act of watching porn with group of friends.

Is Pornography Really Bad?

People often say that pornography use is a "victimless crime”.

This is a big lie!!!

Pornography use is a cancerous epidemic in world. It's destroying lives, souls, children, youth, marriages and families.

The Truth About Pornography

·         Like adultery, fornication, homosexuality, incest, bestiality and other forms of sexual immorality, the use of pornography, too, is sin.
·         Pornography is the product of Lust of the Eye.
·         Pornography is  ‘deeds of the flesh’
·         Pornography is ‘making provision for the flesh’
·         Pornography is the best food for the carnal mind.
·         Married? Pornography use is adultery. Not married? Pornography use is fornication.
·         Pornography is a mental illness or bondage
·         Pornography is sexual immorality of the mind/heart
·         Pornography is the highest and easiest doorway to sexual immorality, sin and death.
·         When you engage in pornography, you are worshiping a sexual idol called ‘Lust’.



Some Consequences of Pornography

It is Addictive—which means slavery or bondage.
It leads to sexual immorality.
It brings pollution to the mind.
It corrupts the purity of the eye.
It brings condemnation and guilt.
It quenches the Fire of God in you.
It grieves the Holy Spirit.
It brings illness to your mind.
It can cause heartbreaks/disappointment in relationship.
It lead to men seeing women has sex objects
It leads to infidelity and divorce


Some Doorways to Pornography

1.       Attack by the spirit of lust
2.       Emotional heartbreak
3.       Lack of sexual satisfaction
4.       To create sexual stimulation or arousal in order to engage in sexual activity (e.g. sexual intercourse, masturbation)
5.       Desire to learn new sexual fantasies
6.       Peer pressure
7.       Loneliness/idleness
8.       Desire to make money


Some Consequences of Pornography

1.       It is Addictive—which means slavery or bondage.
2.       It is a sin and brings spiritual death.
3.       It leads to sexual immorality.
4.       It brings pollution to the mind
5.       It corrupt the purity of the eye
6.       It brings condemnation and guilt
7.       It quenches the Fire of God in you.
8.       It grieves the Holy Spirit.
9.       It brings illness to your mind
10.   It can cause heartbreaks/disappointment in relationship.

Some Scriptures that speaks Against Pornography

Now when evening came David arose from his bed and walked around on the roof of the king's house, and from the roof he saw a woman bathing; and the woman was very beautiful in appearance.

"I have made a covenant with my eyes; How then could I gaze at a virgin?

"You have heard that it was said, 'YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY'; but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death.
For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world.


How to be free from Porn

1. You MUST acknowledge, recognize, and believe that pornography is a sexual sin in and of itself and opens doorways for other sexual sin and sin in general to contaminate you. You must get to the root of the reason why you have turned to pornography so the doorway can be fully closed.

2. You must acknowledge that you cannot be totally free by some psychological or medical programs; you can be truly free by the saving power of Jesus Christ. You must call for His help. Accept Him, Ask for His forgiveness and pray for His power to come and break the yoke of pornography.

3. Make a covenant or a vow to stop viewing pornography of any kind and you will see the grace of God begin to work in your life. (Job in the bible did it! I am also a living proof of this method!)

4. Then begin to build a close relationship with God through regular study of the Word, praying and fasting and attending church services and programs.

5. Build relationship with right people. Learn to socialize with godly people.

6. Get Sexual purity materials that will help you to walk in sexual victory, freedom and purity. (MAKE A REQUEST TO ME AND I WILL SEND YOU THEM FOR FREE!!!)

Live the sexual moral life

Rufus E. Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor/Trainer

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