Coping With Sex in the Street

By Nsubuja James (a Certified International Sexual Morality Counselor from Uganda trained by Evangelist Rufus Elijah Yamoah)

The Gap between Two Generations

 Think of the old world (generation) in comparison to the new world (generation), A very big gap/distinction is seen between the two generations.

 Advanced technologies, knowledge and much more are evident in this new era and we both pagans and believers enjoy the benefits and suffer the consequences. But think of Ethics/characters/manners of both generations, one has a decayed morals and another excelled.

I compare these two generations to a human body. Imagine a muscular man doing well in life depending on physical appearance and may be think of A lady whose facial appearance is wow because if makeup, eye shiner etc but he/she has a kidney problem and lungs are rotting, bones are etching imagine such life. Or I equate this generation to a village rich man who has all the necessities of life, but without a child or has one but deformed. Meaning there is something wrong with this generation.

 Question, why? 

This generation in the name of Rights (human rights) has legalized bad things at the expense of good things.

 I grew up in my hometown Kasenge but I remember very well we never saw private parts of our sisters, and never even noticed that they experienced monthly periods (MPs). Till recently I realized that private matters became public issues. This generation of human rights has decorated our streets, Islands and the like with naked women and men, girls and boys selling themselves at only 1000℅-2000℅ shillings and in portions long and short.

Oh God!!!

 The Holy Scriptures teaches us that "A women shall have their desires from men"(Gen3:16).

But things were exchanged and now men have their desires from women. Men are men in the flesh but mentally and perhaps spiritually are women and the vice versa.

Who bewitched this generation?

 Check out your streets, islands, clubs and places of entertainment.  Sex on beaches, sex in bars, sex in bushes, sex Churches, sex everywhere!!! Our technologies do not matter before God and our rights are not His rights and do they matter before Him. But our characters/acts matters a lot.

HOW TO DEAL WITH SEXUAL PROBLEMS IN THE STREETS

 The following if strongly emphasized and revived can help us curb down this vices.

1.       Family factor: following the common slogan, which goes "charity begins at home" we can mold, potter and set bright future for our children. Family factor is partly responsible to a great extent for moral decay of this generation. How our children wear, talk, behave and face the future is proportional to what parents sow in them.

2.        Religious factor: With this we always have two common sayings, (a)"The fear of the Lord is the source of wisdom"(b)"Grow/teach a child the way to take even when he grows he will never leave it" The only way to achieve those two, sayings is when we combine the two factors that is family factor and religious factor. Because before priests teach people how to behave, the parents would have already prepared their children with teachable hearts. A society with religious people is likely to a large extent behaved than a society without religious tendencies

3.        Education factor: In my country Uganda ministers had introduced sex education in schools right from baby classes to university. To me it’s not bad as long as you consider time factor, when to teach such and to who? Because these infants and young students are likely to practice either with their fellow students or teachers. So what we teach our children especially when they are still young will eventually mold their future.

4.        Political factor: (a) Leaders of the countries, villages, and societies determines how the society will act and respond on matters, example if a country's parliament sets laws that rob parent's authority over their children, then who will teach them the right way. In Uganda these days when you beat your kid he/she is advised to go to police .(But this in my home does not work) why God gave me those kids knowing that whatever good or wrong thing going on in their lives am 85% responsible. b) The political climate politicians set in the country whether calm or chaotic will mold the behaviors of people. Rape, forced marriages etc such will be determined by political atmosphere in the country set by leaders.

5.        Think also about peer pressure people we surround our lives with will to a large extent determine how we respond to matters pertaining life many boys and girls men and women who formerly religious, were influenced by their friends around them."Good character distorts good character"

Many more we can talk about but I strongly emphasize the first two solutions that is Family factor and Religious factor

Sexual morality world is possible...

The Truth About Romance

Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

--1 Corinthians 7:1

What is Romance?

According to Wikipedia, it is the pleasure of feeling of excitement and mystery of love.

Romance usually implies an expression one’s love or one’s deep emotional desires to connect with another person, most particularly, the opposite sex.

Romance can also be seen as a form of Sexual Play. It is in this context we will address this subject.

The Truth and Power of Romance

Romance or sexual play is a very powerful activity can greatly impact a relationship

Romance is like an oil in an engine, and like a fuel to fire.

Romance is a sweet provision for the satisfaction of the flesh.

Romance is special as sexual intercourse is special.

God is not Against Romance

“When Isaac had been there a long time, Abimelek king of the Philistines looked down from a window and saw Isaac caressing his wife Rebekah” (Genesis 26:8)

***The Scriptures wrote about Isaac having romantic activity with HIS WIFE. They were MARRIED!!!***

The Act of Romance

Here are some activities people engage in Romance or Sexual Play

1.      Kissing

2.      Rubbing/touch of sexual/sensitive organs of the other person (e.g. breast, penis, vagina, buttocks)

3.      Deep hugging

4.      Massaging

Why Young people/Singles Engage in Romance

1.      As a means of consolation to avoid sexual intercourse.

2.      As a means to avoid pregnancy and Sexually transmitted disease.

3.      As a means to attain sexual satisfaction.

4.      As a means to please their partner.

What You Need to Know

1.      Romance may be sexual abstinence, but it is not sexual purity.

2.      Romance as a single is still sexual immorality before God and a sin. (Hard right?—but true)

3.       Romance may be a means to avoid STD; but not a means to avoid sin.

4.      Romance is a sexual doorway that will always lead to sexual intercourse.

5.      Romance is highly influenced by the spirit of lust.

6.      Romance is making provision and feeding the flesh and not your spirit.

7.      Romance does not bring sexual satisfaction, it will leave wanting for more.

Doorways/Causes of Romance

1.      Too much closeness with the opposite sex.

2.      Holding and Dancing together

3.      Sitting on the laps of an opposite sex

4.      Watching pornographic together

5.      Falling in lust and infatuation thinking it is Love.

6.      Listening to romantic/songs music/ watching love movies/soap operas together.

7.      Having sexual dreams while sleeping.

8.      Reading romantic novels/magazines.

Overcoming the trap of Romance

1.      Change the way you think. A lot of people are too casual when it comes to sexual play. They see it as nothing wrong with it. They believe that as long as we don’t engage in sexual intercourse, everything else can take place. BIG LIE!

2.      Humble Yourself and FLEE. A lot people are claim they are strong and that they can manage the game of romance. But this people who claim to be strong are only bread in the hand of the devil. You are not better, stronger or wiser than Joseph who ran away from Potipher’s wife!

3.      Soak yourself in the Word of God. This will help you deal with lust in your mind.

4.      Spend more time fellowship with God through prayer, fasting and worship.

5.      Close every doorway that will only fuel your sexual feelings.

My Advice:

As a single/young person, engaging in sexual play or romance will only give the devil opportunity to attack you with lust towards sexual immorality.

The Word of God adminises us to ‘FLEE FROM YOUTHFUL LUST…” (2 Timothy 2:22

Live the sexual morality life…

Rufus Yamoah

Sexual Morality Counselor

Understanding the Sexual Agenda of the Last Days

Sex, Sex and More Sex.

Give me your attention!!!      

                              

 I want to show you that our modern humanity is locked in a bloody battle against mighty unseen forces of the luciferian world, whose greatest weapon of persuasion is the sex opium.

Many pastors, bishops, apostles and generals of the gospel may avoid this acclaimed 'dirty topic', and they have a good reason to do so, because talking about sex slavery has been deemed childish, a topic left for errant teens and delinquent juveniles. Yet sex slavery is Satan's most lethal weapon against this civilized world.

Here's A dream I had:

On the 13th of August, 2016, early morning hours, I awoke from a stream of dream, in which the Lord gave me a shocking revelation of Satan's sexual agenda for the young people of this generation. In the revelation, a group of people opened a fast growing business near our place of worship, this business was so lucrative everyone got attracted to it, so I went close to see, friends, what I saw was so shocking I couldn't hold my breath, I saw young people, all boys, flocking around this new business, each paid a certain amount to the business owner, and came outside with a substance they wore around the penile area, then they began having sex in turns, with a she goat tied to a stake in front of the premises, they had sex from the anus of the she goat. This sight was so appalling, I couldn't hold my breath any more, and when I recognized one of my members’ son among the lot, I lifted my voice and ordered the people to close this evil business. The business owner made clear to me that the boys were there on their own volition and that each paid a token fee of one naira for a turn of sex with the she goat. In the altercation that ensued, my threat to involve the law enforcement agency was very weak, there after I awoke.

Friends, there is something sinister about the sex revolution of this present civilization.

Here are some insights gained from this powerful revelation:

1.  Sex business is the fastest growing business of this generation.
2. Sex is the cheapest commodity in the world today.

3. Girls who get caught up in the satanic web called prostitution have become slaves of sex, by which men's destinies are brought to mediocrity.
4. Overwhelming majority of the boys and men of this generation have become subjects of Satan’s slave market.
5. The government of the day has no answer whatsoever to this satanic invasion.
6. The organized church is strangely and dangerously silent over the massive enslavement of the young people by Satan's business merchants.
7. The sex industry is juxtaposed against the church, a potent end time weapon to pollute and defile God's people, there by bringing God's work to mediocrity.
8. Sex is Satan's gift to civilized end time humanity.  

Dear friend, unless you choose to play the ostrich, you don't need any revelation to see these things.

Recently, a self confessed private prostitute, whom the Lord saved under my watch, asked a question that got me startled. In the course of prayers and deliverance, she asked, "If I get saved now what is going to happen to all the men I have destroyed?" This young lady, a very beautiful girl, told me she has an invisible male partner who sometimes appear physically to have sex at will with her, she makes love to this tall handsome guy in the dream all the time. She went on to say that this same man, sometimes come to her in the form of females and also makes lesbian love to her in the dream, consequently, she began to have a physical attraction to same sex.
Continuing her exposure, she said any man who eventually has his way with her immediately comes under the wrath of this domineering spiritual influence. She said once, a male sex customer was almost choked to death immediately after sex. This lady knows that any man who sleeps with her is already finished. The only problem is, she has lost the will power to determine the direction of her destiny. She was a sex slave, a marine evangelist, a trap for erring men, a she goat and a destroyer of destinies.

Dear friend the battle of this end time is more deadly than what the organized church will have you see, Satan has released an army of water spirits, against unsuspecting civilized people and Satan's final gift to a depraved world is sex, sex and more sex.

Recently, I and my friend Rufus Yamoah ministered deliverance and counseling to normal church girl, whom we later discovered to be a marine evangelist, a she goat who sleeps with up to sixteen men in a day! Once this spirits arrest any soul, that person is enslaved and plunged into sexual delusion.
 

Make no mistake about it, sexual impurity, slavery, bondage, vice, perversion, immorality, pollution and preponderance is the final agenda of Satan's evil kingdom.

Can you imagine the level of damage Satan has done to the cause of righteousness through the proliferation and preponderance of pornographic materials? Can you imagine the number of gospel ministers secretly struggling with this huge monster, if I have not been there, I wouldn't be talking to you. You cannot accurately estimate Satan's gains against righteousness through the advent of indecent and sexy fashion, what about demonic legislations from government's which pave the way for Satan to unleash the sexual agenda on modern people.

In the light of all these, the church cannot continue in silence.

As almost all the streets today are littered with sex business centers, the church must take the front seat in the battle for a sexually moral and upright generation. The government has no say in this area, only the church can arrest the situation. I therefore call upon our great denominations to synergize and forge a common front.  

Sex education and deliverance ministry must return to the churches.

Let us stop the stigmatization of people with sex related problems and pray God for grace to minister to this prisoner of war.

 Let us fight and not relent, till a generation is raised who will stand for purity, godliness, holiness and moral uprightness in this corrupt and adulterous generation.

Proverbs 7King James Version (KJV)

1` My son, keep my words, and lay up my commandments with thee.

2 Keep my commandments, and live; and my law as the apple of thine eye.

3 Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.

4 Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman:

5 That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.

6 For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,

7 And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,

8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house,

9 In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night:

10 And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.

11 (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:

12 Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.)

13 So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him,

14 I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows.

15 Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.

16 I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.

17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.

18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.

19 For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:

20 He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed.

21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.

22 He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;

23 Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.

24 Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth.

25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.

26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.

27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.

 More grace.

By Pastor Newman Chibuihe (edited by Rufus Yamoah)

The Pursuit of Sexual Purity in this Present World

Sexual Purity Is Expensive!
It comes at a great cost.

 As people work very hard to attain financial and academic excellence, so must you work, even labor very had to attain sexual purity.

 Great discipline, great focus, great determination, great prayers, great watchfulness and great grace: all these are basic essentials in the quest for sexual purity.

 We live in a sexually explicit generation; therefore the challenge of sexual purity has indeed become a herculean aspiration. This difficulty and struggle with sexual orientations and addictions arises from the sexual saturation of modern secularism/civilization. As the Arab world is passionate for blood and terror, the west is crazy about sex and nakedness.

                                                            

 If you want a headline to make national impact quickly, then communicate it through the channel of nudity.

Nudity is settling well with the world of commerce, the entertainment industry, the world of fashion, and very strange enough: the political world.

Today in the western world, it is no longer archaic for civilized people to match the street, in their thousands, all in the nude, just to make a political point.

This sudden change in human social order has taking the character of a complete revolution. I like to call it the sexual revolution. This revolution as you can see is not just the brain child of a brilliant college professor; it represents the final agenda of the dark kingdoms, which control the flow of human civilization.
You will understand what I mean, when you sit and ponder why a president will make the issue of sexual orientation/revolution the major thrust of his administration's governing policy. He had to threaten other world sovereign states with denial of essential state benefits for this very reason.

The internet today is over loaded with heavy sexual content. With immoral filth popped at the face of civilized humanity, the world is now saturated with all kinds of blood sucking demons that enslave people through sexual impurity and reduce men and women to mere slaves and tools of sexual entertainment.

Friends because of the sexually explicit and morally decadent nature of this generation, you must take deliberate steps and make concerted effort to be completely free from this monster of sex enslavement.

Sexual immorality and impurity has become Satan's number one weapon against humanity today.

 It attacks everything that represents morality and godliness.

The sexual revolution of the 21st century is anti Christ, anti God, and anti humanity.

 It is Satan's final strategy against God and man. It has done more damage to modern civilization than any other contrived vice known to mankind. The whole world is stunned at the total collapse of morality in the western world, particularly in the United States of America. With over sixty million recorded abortions in the space of a year, the total collapse of the traditional human family system, coupled with the radical but satanic redefinition of the marriage act, a generation has arisen, which has no inclination of the sacredness or the sanctity of the sexual act, let alone the possibility of sexual purity.

 This sex crazy generation has lost every known restraint and has fallen headlong into the horrendous lifestyle of Sodom and Gomorrah, the madness of a cursed people, a generation of vipers and lovers of pleasure.

Friends, sexual purity is a function of great resolve, great dexterity and great maturity.

 It is serious work.

To attain sexual purity in a sex crazy generation, you must be ready to pay a great prize.

 It comes at the greatest cost because it yields an equally great dividend.

Firstly, it gives you the blessed status of gold; you become a vessel unto honor meet or fit for God's highest purposes in your life.

You will not be found unfit to carry out the mandate upon your destiny. Both Daniel and Joseph became excellent case studies of the power and benefit of sexual purity. Although it comes at the greatest cost, yet until you excel that test, you will not amount to anything with God.

Do all in your strength to flee sexual impurity; it is Satan's greatest weapon against fallen humanity.

 In the human nature, sex pleasure is the greatest, but in the divine nature it is nothing but empty pleasure when done out of marriage context.

Therefore I say. “Walk in the spirit and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh”. (Galatians 5:16)

 More grace.

(Written by Newman Chilbuihe, a Pastor and Sexual Purity Minister. Edited by Rufus E. Yamoah)