Understanding Joseph Strategy for Sexual Victory

As I was consenting on the vision God gave me on Sexual Morality World and how possible for one to be pure in such a sex-crazy and infested society…

The Lord gave a word of promise: He said, “I want to release the anointing, grace and wisdom of Joseph that will help young people overcome sexual immorality so that they can fulfill their destiny and bring glory to my Name”.

In this teaching, I will be sharing with you the ‘Joseph Strategy’ for overcoming sexual temptations and pressures for sex from others.

The Joseph’s Encounter

“Then after a time his master’s wife cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said,

Lie with me.

But he refused, and said to his master’s wife, See here, with me in the house my master has concern about nothing; he has put all that he has in my care.

He is not greater in this house than I am; nor has he kept anything from me except you, for you are his wife. How then can I do this great evil and sin against God?

She spoke to Joseph day after day, but he did not listen to her, to lie with her or to be with her.

Then it happen about this time that Joseph went into the house to attend to his duties, and none of the men of the house were indoors.

And she caught him by his garment saying, lie with me! But he left his garment in her hand and fled and got out (of the house)”

--Genesis 39:7-12, AMP

What is the Joseph Strategy?

It is called ‘Resist and Flee’ strategy.

It is the ancient principle for sexual victory that is still working today.

I am a living proof the R & F model. It is a divine model. It is simple but CERTAIN.

It worked for Joseph. It will work for you no matter the challenge you are facing today.

Stage One…

*JOSEPH REFUSED OR RESISTED…

The Word of God instructs us on this principle:

“Submit yourself therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you” --James 4:6

Proverbs 1:10, “my son, if sinners entice you, do not consent”.

Stage Two…

*JOSEPH FLED…

The Word of God instructs us on this principle:

1 Corinthians 6:18, “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body”.

The R & F Model says: “Resist sexual enticement and Flee from sexual pressure”.

This is Joseph strategy.

God’s formula is: Resist + Flee = Sexual Victory.

Lessons from Joseph for Living the Overcoming Life:

• Learn to say no to sex immoral temptations.

• When sex temptations persists, let your refusal and stubbornness also persist.

• Staying away or avoiding that person who is asking for immoral sex is a good way of reducing and overcoming the tension or fear of falling victim.

• You must learn to understand your boundaries like Joseph—sex immorality is no go area!

• Joseph quickly recognizes a sexual doorway when he found himself alone with a strange seductive woman. What did he do? He fled!

Follow Joseph’s footstep, whether you are a guy or a lady.

>>>Follow the path of Joseph, live in victory and fulfill your destiny

 Rufus Yamoah

Sexual Purity Strategist

The Power of Faith Confession for Sexual Victory

The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

                                                                                                        --Proverbs 18:21

What is Faith Confession?

Faith Confession is all about speaking the Word of God into your situation in other to affect positive change.

Faith confession is a seed that brings harvest of victory, freedom, breakthrough and blessings.

12.And on the morrow, when they were come from Bethany, he was hungry:
¹³ And seeing a fig tree afar off having leaves, he came, if haply he might find any thing thereon: and when he came to it, he found nothing but leaves; for the time of figs was not yet.
¹⁴ And Jesus answered and said unto it, No man eat fruit of thee hereafter for ever. And his disciples heard it.
And in the morning, as they passed by, they saw the fig tree dried up from the roots.
²¹ And Peter calling to remembrance saith unto him, Master, behold, the fig tree which thou cursedst is withered away.
²² And Jesus answering saith unto them, Have faith in God.
²³ For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.
²⁴ Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.   (We read Mark 11:12-14,12-14)

The Power of Faith Confession

Faith confession has become one of the most proven, trusted and powerful strategies that can help anyone come out from sexual struggle.

Faith confession is a great tool for Sexual therapy, recovery and purity.

It is time we use our tongue effectively to speak words that will produce the fruit of purity, victory and success.

Here is a compiled Faith Confession you can be using daily for your sexual purity and victory

SEXUAL PURITY FAITH CONFESSION:

I am free from immorality
I am living in sexual purity
I have the grace to overcome sin
 I will not commit sin with my eyes
I am forgiven and cleans from all unrighteousness  
I have eternal life and I possess my Kingdom blessings  
My marriage shall be honorable and prosperous 
 I am a candidate of Heaven’s inheritance  
I will not engage in any illicit sex  
I am not of this world and I will not live by its lusts 
I live in righteousness, faith, love and peace.  
I am walking in purity and righteousness 
  I claim victory over every war against my soul  
I refuse to indulge in sexual perversion with my fellow gender  
My heart shall produce the fruits that glorify God  
I am free from every yoke and bondage  
I am a believer, I am righteous and I walk in the light  
I will not indulge in any unnatural desire and immorality  
I will live the higher life and shall not crash to the ground
The Word of God abides in me and I am fruitful in heart  
My eyes are sanctified and shall see God’s glory  
I shall be faithful to my partner in marriage
I will honor and glorify God with my body
I am free and cleans from every form of pollution  
I will not use my body as a mechanize for money
 I build my family and never destroy it
I am walking in the light of God  
I am walking in the path of righteousness and holiness  
The kingdom of God is my passion and priority  
My heart is flowing the springs of living waters  
I am a victor, not a victim. I am more than conqueror  
The church shall not tolerate satanic practices anymore
I see God, I see Jesus Christ, and I see the Holy Spirit
 I am clean by the washing of the Word of God  
I am justified in Christ  
I am spiritually minded and I am God’s friend  
My inner glory is reflecting in my appearance
I have the right kind of people in my life
I am agent of the goodness of God
I am born again and am a Child of God...

                      

 Enjoy the sexual purified life

Rufus E. Yamoah

Sexual Purity Strategist

How to Overcome Sexual Pressure

“Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers”. Psalms 1:1

What is Pressure?

Pressure can simply be defined as ‘the force or influence that cannot be avoided’.

Then what is sexual pressure? It is a condition or situation where is person is under strong influence to give in to sexual temptation or manipulation.

Sexual pressure (S.P) is the main pitfall behind every sexual struggle.

Sexual pressure has led many into sexual defeat, addiction, bondage and destruction.

Many have lost their pride, dignity and integrity by giving in to sexual manipulation and seduction.

God has given every person in this world ‘Will Power’ in order to handle the pressure of our human emotions.

People who allow their emotion to control them are people tend to suffer from sexual pressure.

Strong people control their emotion; weak people allow their emotion to remote them.

The Spirit of Compromise

This spirit is the major force that causes people to succumb to sexual pressure.

The spirit of compromise brings false assumption and presumption.

It makes to belief a lie. Compromise works in partnership with deception.

Compromise makes us to undermine Word of God and follow our feelings or reasoning.

Let us learn some powerful lessons from the life of Joseph who also faced sexual pressure but refuse to compromise his belief and stand…and he overcame!

The Joseph’s Encounter

“Then after a time his master’s wife cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said,

Lie with me.

But he refused, and said to his master’s wife, See here, with me in the house my master has concern about nothing; he has put all that he has in my care.

He is not greater in this house than I am; nor has he kept anything from me except you, for you are his wife. How then can I do this great evil and sin against God?

She spoke to Joseph day after day, but he did not listen to her, to lie with her or to be with her.

Then it happen about this time that Joseph went into the house to attend to his duties, and none of the men of the house were indoors.

And she caught him by his garment saying, lie with me! But he left his garment in her hand and fled and got out (of the house)”

--Genesis 39:7-12, AMP

There is no excuse why we fall into sexual temptation. We can resist because God has put in us grace, wisdom and power to handle every situation of sexual pressure. Learn from Joseph. You too can overcome.

Joseph’s Wisdom for Living the Overcoming Life:

• Learn to say no to sex immoral temptations.

• When sex temptations persists, let your refusal and stubbornness also persist.

• Staying away or avoiding that person who is asking for immoral sex is a good way of reducing and overcoming the tension or fear of falling victim.

• You must learn to understand your boundaries like Joseph—sex immorality is no go area!

• Joseph quickly recognizes a sexual doorway when he found himself alone with a strange seductive woman. What does he do? He fled!

We must follow Joseph footstep if we want to inherit the Kingdom of Christ and fulfill our divine destiny.

“Submit yourself therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you” James 4: 6

Also, there are some words of advice I want to share with you that we help you overcome.

 Do not think you stand, lest you fall. Flee is the solution to sexual temptation.

 Do not think of yourself to be something when you are nothing. Humility is a protector.

Do not seduce or manipulate someone to lust after you

 Do not take pride in saying ‘I am strong’.

 Do not deliberately put yourself in a situation that brings sexual temptation.

 You must not abuse the Grace of God in your life through careless and carefree living.

 You must learn to value highly what you have in Christ lest you lose it.

Keep yourself for your Life Partner. Your body is the most valuable gift offering to the one you love.

You must have respect for your natural body chemistry, hormones, organism, passion and feelings. If you ignore them they will betray you.

You must follow the voice of God when He instructs you on what not to do and where not to go. Disobedience brings destruction.

Live in freedom and victory today…

May God release the grace of Joseph into your life from today in order to live in victory and dominion…

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor

How to Handle Your Sexual Urge

“The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure”. (1 Corinthians 10:13)

Understanding Sexual Urge

Sexual Urge (U.S.) simply means ‘when a person is having feelings, passion or desire to have sex or engage in sexual activity’.

Quick Fact about Sexual Urge

# Sexual urge or feeling is not a sin.

# Sexual urge is a seed deposited in every human by God for pleasure and fulfillment.

Everyone’s sexual urge is not the same because we were all created with different personalities, traits and make-up.

# God did not plant sexual feeling inside of us to enslave us, neither for it to control or remote us to obey its wants.

# If you do not experience sexual urge at all as a person, then you are probably dead and need to be buried! Sexual urge is part of what makes us living and active.

The Power and the Struggle

The cause of every sexual perversion and promiscuity is man’s inability to control is sexual urge.

Youth number one problem and struggle is the struggle to manage their youthful lust (sexual desire).

Every time receive one question, “Mr. Rufus, how can I control my sexual urge?”

It is true that sexual feeling or desire is one of the most powerful emotions in the make-up of humans.

The need for sexual satisfaction has caused millions of young people to involve themselves in all kinds of perversion and wickedness, thereby destroying their lives and destinies.

A lot of people believe that as long as man has sexual feeling, he cannot attain sexual purity or freedom.

This belief system is not true. It is a big lie!

Sexual freedom, purity and victory are not a function of the destruction of sexual feeling; it is the mastering, managing and controlling of your sexual urge.

We walk by faith and not by sight, sense or feelings (2 Corinthians 5:7).

We are led by the Word of God (Psalm 119:105), and not by our emotions (Jeremiah 17:9)

Another popular belief that is causing sexual defeat and damage is that: ‘Sexual feelings are not meant to be controlled, but to be expressed when it comes.’

You must understand and accept it that, sexual expression, satisfaction or fulfillment as a youth or single…is IMMORALITY AND A SIN!

No matter your feeling or urge, it does not give you the legal right or ticket to engage in any sexual activity or pleasure.

Causes of Sexual Urge

There are basically two main sources that influence sexual drive or desire:

1.      Sexual urge is naturally influence by our sexual hormone inside of us called Oxytocin. This is the natural seed deposited in us by God for sexual pleasure.

The kind of sexual feeling can be easily controlled through discipline, self control and purity thinking.

2.      Sexual urge can also be influence by the spirit of lust which is called ‘Satan’s messenger of immorality’. When the spirit of lust comes, it will release an uncontrollable sexual feeling like a fire inside of us to make sure that we engage in sexual activity before it can be quenched or calm down. Sexual feeling that is influence by lust cannot be easily controlled except you battle it with the Word of God and prayer.

The Fuel of Sexual Urge

The reason why many young people and even adults for victim of their sexual urge is because they lack wisdom on how to handle their feeling. Instead of looking for ways to quench, subdue or control their desire, they allow the feeling to develop and give birth to sexual immorality.

Sexual play is the fuel of sexual urge. The Word of God command us not to make provision for the flesh (our human nature) (Read Romans 13:14). Jesus Christ said about Himself that “the devil has found nothing in me".

We fuel or develop our sexual urge by engaging in sexual play like kissing, romancing, sucking of breast or penis, fingering, pecking e.t.c.

This is serious mistake.

We cannot play around sex. We cannot underestimate the power of sexual urge. There is no self confidence when it comes to sexual activity. We are warned to flee!!!

Proven Ways to Handle your Sexual Urge

1.      Change your thinking. Renew your mind. Stop immoral thinking. Start practicing what I called ‘purity thinking’. This can take place as you meditate of the Word of God which is a purifier and cleanser ( John 15:3)

2.      Use the Blood of Jesus and Name of Jesus to Bind and uproot the spirit of lust attacking and manipulating you.

3.      Ask for the Help of the Holy Spirit. He gives power and grace to overcome and escape.

4.      Fasting and prayer also help to build up your spirit and soul to have strength to combat sexual feelings.

5.      Get yourself into doing something worthwhile with your time. Idleness is the play ground for immoral thinking and lust. (1Timothy 5:13). Avoid loneliness. Engage in positive socialization.

6.      Close every sexual doorway that is causing the sexual urge. E.g. watching of pornography. You need to do away with such practice if you want to manage your feeling successfully.

To your purity and victory

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor