Understanding the Bondage of Sexual Perversion

"There is a way that seemeth right unto a man but the end thereof are the ways of death”

                              -- (Proverbs 14:12)

 

What is Perversion?

According to Webster’s dictionary defines perversion as ‘diverting from the true intent or purpose; a change to something worse; a turning or applying to a wrong end or use’.

According to Free Medical dictionary, Sexual Perversion is also known as ‘paraphilia disorder’ meaning a condition where a person’s sexual urge, fantasies, impulses and behavior is abused and misused against culture, nature, social, health, religions, laws and ethics and also causing psychological /emotional harm and distress.

Bible Dictionary simply defines Perversion as ‘deviation from righteousness’.

Sexual perversion all about ‘having a wrong mentality and response towards sexual desire.    

The Bondage of Sexual Perversion   

This is a matter of Choice...

Sexual perversion is immorality in the highest order.

Sexual perversion has made humans to become even worse than animals. (Sorry to say this).

It has cause abomination and destruction to many lives.

Sexual perversion has left many young people and adult to wallow in bondage, shame and darkness.

Through sexual perversion, Satan (the Old Serpent) has twisted God’s purpose and corrupted one of Gods greatest gift to humanity—SEX .

Through sexual perversion, the abominable has become the acceptable. Sexual shame and disgrace has now become a public celebration.

The society today believes that human rights and freedom permits people to engage in whatever sexual activity that pleases them as long as it brings them immediate satisfaction and gratification.

#Sexual perversion is the fruit of false freedom, self glorification and corrupt wisdom of men.

THIS IS EVIL. (Please read Romans 1:17-32).

Types of Sexual Perversion

There are over hundred sexual perversions in the world today. Sexual opinions and activities are increasing as the days goes by.

I will only give you some of the common sexual perversions causing controversies and keeping people in deep and serious bondage.

1.      Homosexuality (Gay):            ( a male having sex with a fellow male)

2.      Lesbianism :                ( a female having sex with a female)

3.      Masturbation:            (a person having sex with his/her own self)

4.      Bestiality:       (Having sex with animals/birds )

5.      Having sex with toys and images

6.      Oral sex :         ( putting your tongue into another person’s sexual organs (vagina/penis)

7.      Finger sex:      ( putting your finger(s) into a woman’s vagina)

8.      Anal sex :        ( having sex with a person’s anus)

9.      Tran-sexuality: (changing your body//sexual organ into that of the opposite sex.

10.  Sex robbery:   ( stealing the underwear’s of an opposite sex)

11.  Incest:            (having sex with a blood relative i.e. mother, sister, cousin).

12.  Rape:               (having sex with someone against their Will)

13.  Child Sex abuse: (having sex with a child or kid)

The Power Purpose and Truth

Dr Myles Munroe says, “When a purpose is not known abuse is inevitable”.

While Jesus Christ says, ‘You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.

#The doorway to sexual perversion is lack of purpose and ignorance/rejection of truth.

There is great power in understanding purpose.

Purpose brings power

Purpose brings right living.

Truth brings freedom.

Truth gives direction and knowledge.

Truth brings grace and light.

When you know the purpose of sex and you discover the truth on how to act and react to your sexual fantasies, you will have sexual freedom.

Note: Truth is Truth; it does not matter if it doesn’t have followers like Twitter or friends life Facebook!

To find the purpose of sex and the truth about sex and sexual activities, we have to seek and ask the inventor of sex –GOD.

Back to Basis

        

You can never discover PURPOSE AND TRUTH without first connecting with GOD.

You can never connect or network with God without first linking yourself to the WORD OF GOD—THE BIBLE.

(PLEASE DO WELL TO READ AND RE-READ THE BOOK OF LEVITICUS CHAPTER 18)

 Live a life of freedom, joy and victory. Be free from the bondage of sexual perversion.

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor

The Truth About Kissing

"The kisses of an enemy is deceitful" 
                                               -- (Proverbs 27:6b)

The Concept of Kissing

Wow! This is really a sensitive but interesting subject.
The issue of Kissing has really raised a lot of noise
and stirred up controversy among the minor and elite circles.

Everyone has his/her own opinion and experience.

But let’s get this straight: Life is not determined by your opinions; it is determined by TRUTH.

The truth must be told and lies and myths must be buried.

Anyway…

What is Kissing?

In a general and simple term, ‘kissing is an act or process whereby a person uses the lips as a mark of love or greeting towards someone or something’.

There are different kinds of kissing. Kissing can be express in different ways. 

More so, kissing means different things to different people.

Much as this subject has been influenced so much by nature and nurture, I wouldn’t want to dabble into an unnecessary controversy thereby loosing focus of my priority.

In short; I just want to address the issue of mouth-to-mouth kissing.

The Effect of Mouth-to-Mouth Kissing

Mouth-to-mouth kissing in simple practical term means ‘a form of kissing where by a person uses his/her lips to make contact with another person’s lips as a mark of expressing love and soul connection.

When it comes to the subject of sex and sexuality, kissing is a very big topic. 

The effect of mouth-to-mouth kissing to the human body can never be overemphasized.

Kissing is the most powerful force that activates or releases our sexual hormones and passion.

When we engage in kissing, it creates a strong urge in us to have sex.

Kissing (whether casual or serious) is an effective tool for seduction and manipulation. 

Kissing creates an atmosphere for sexual connection.

Kissing is the preparation ground for sexual intercourse.

The Truth must be told

Kissing is the major channel through which the spirit of deception operates against people.

Through kissing (I mean mouth-to-mouth), an evil poison called ‘lust’ is released into our mind and heart, thereby causing us to become carnal. (Romans 8:7)

Don’t deceive yourself: if you are not ready for sex, do not engage in the game of kissing. Kissing is the bus that will take you to a destination called ‘Sexual Intercourse’.

Kissing is a powerful doorway to sexual immorality. If you don’t want to be the next victim of fornication, please don’t tempt yourself with the game of kissing.

A young lady said to me, “I am in a relationship, and I agree not to have sex, but I will be kissing”.

Well… actually a lot of people claim nothing is wrong, yet thousands of people are falling sexual victim in per second billing.

Let me tell you: Kissing is as powerful as sexual intercourse.

Through kissing (whether, deep or long kissing), people achieve sexual climax and satisfaction even without sexual intercourse.

Now; if this is true… then mouth-to-mouth kissing is a sinful act much as fornication is. PERIOD!

In relationship, dating or friendship with someone, when you treat kissing as casual or nothing, it may lead you into the pit of sexual immorality.

Wisdom says that: whatever that will lead you into sin do not engage in it.

Be Wise… be Smart… Flee!

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor

The Truth About Masturbation

"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery. But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."--Matt. 5:27-28 (NIV)

One of the reasons God created Eve was because He did not want Adam to end up in masturbation lifestyle. Sound funny, right? (Please read Gen. 2:18; Eccl. 4:11).

Understanding What Masturbation IS?              

                    

Masturbation is a sexual activity where someone derives sexual pleasure or satisfaction by rubbing or playing with his/her sexual organ with their hands or with the help of any instrument.

We have male and female masturbation.

Masturbation is one of the most common sexual behaviors among young people—yet nobody sees the effects and dangers around it.

The truth has been swallowed up with many lies and misconceptions.

Of a truth, people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge—God’s knowledge.

Understanding the Cause

Loneliness + Uncontrolled sexual urge = Masturbation.

Masturbation is caused an unclean spirit.

It is addictive and habitual. It has a strong bonding power to cage its victim for a lifetime.

This force of masturbation is so strong that when it comes upon someone, until he/she engage in the act the spirit will not leave.

Masturbation is having a strong desire to satisfy flesh. God warned us against seeking to satisfy or please the flesh or our carnal mind. (See Romans 8:6-8)

Masturbation is a consolation of the devil to bridge your sexual immoral desire and lust.

**God is too Holy to ever suggest masturbation as an antidote for your sexual lust or urge**

Many people try to treat masturbation as common and casual. Some felt that it should not be given attention because it is just a bad habit and not more. THIS IS NON SENSE!

Masturbation is more than just a bad habit…IT IS SEXUAL IMMORALITY…IT IS A SIN AGAINST GOD.

When we lack this truth and understanding…we will continue to live in bondage of falsehood.

When you look carefully at the above opening scripture, you will discover the powerful truth Jesus revealed to us: Sexual immorality is more than just sexual intercourse...

THIS IS IT:

**Every sexual gratification, relieve or pleasure that does not involve a man and a wife (as prescribed by God) is a sin and evil whether there is an intercourse or not...PERIOD!

Take a look at this scripture: "AGAIN, IF TWO LIE TOGETHER, THEN THEY HAVE HEAT: BUT HOW CAN ONE BE WARM ALONE?" (Eccl. 4:11)

This scriptural question is posted to everybody who engages in masturbation.

THINK—YES, THINK ABOUT IT.

How can you find warm (sexual pleasure) alone?

This reveals and proved that masturbation is abnormal no matter who or what you are!

Much as Sexual intercourse outside marriage is condemned...Masturbation is not an Option...

Those who engage in masturbation have put on a filthy garment. And like Joshua (Zech. 3:1-7), God is ready to change your garment today...

YOU SHALL KNOW THE TRUTH…AND THE TRUTH YOU KNOW AND APPLY SHALL SET YOU FREE.

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor