The Truth About Kissing

"The kisses of an enemy is deceitful" 
                                               -- (Proverbs 27:6b)

The Concept of Kissing

Wow! This is really a sensitive but interesting subject.
The issue of Kissing has really raised a lot of noise
and stirred up controversy among the minor and elite circles.

Everyone has his/her own opinion and experience.

But let’s get this straight: Life is not determined by your opinions; it is determined by TRUTH.

The truth must be told and lies and myths must be buried.

Anyway…

What is Kissing?

In a general and simple term, ‘kissing is an act or process whereby a person uses the lips as a mark of love or greeting towards someone or something’.

There are different kinds of kissing. Kissing can be express in different ways. 

More so, kissing means different things to different people.

Much as this subject has been influenced so much by nature and nurture, I wouldn’t want to dabble into an unnecessary controversy thereby loosing focus of my priority.

In short; I just want to address the issue of mouth-to-mouth kissing.

The Effect of Mouth-to-Mouth Kissing

Mouth-to-mouth kissing in simple practical term means ‘a form of kissing where by a person uses his/her lips to make contact with another person’s lips as a mark of expressing love and soul connection.

When it comes to the subject of sex and sexuality, kissing is a very big topic. 

The effect of mouth-to-mouth kissing to the human body can never be overemphasized.

Kissing is the most powerful force that activates or releases our sexual hormones and passion.

When we engage in kissing, it creates a strong urge in us to have sex.

Kissing (whether casual or serious) is an effective tool for seduction and manipulation. 

Kissing creates an atmosphere for sexual connection.

Kissing is the preparation ground for sexual intercourse.

The Truth must be told

Kissing is the major channel through which the spirit of deception operates against people.

Through kissing (I mean mouth-to-mouth), an evil poison called ‘lust’ is released into our mind and heart, thereby causing us to become carnal. (Romans 8:7)

Don’t deceive yourself: if you are not ready for sex, do not engage in the game of kissing. Kissing is the bus that will take you to a destination called ‘Sexual Intercourse’.

Kissing is a powerful doorway to sexual immorality. If you don’t want to be the next victim of fornication, please don’t tempt yourself with the game of kissing.

A young lady said to me, “I am in a relationship, and I agree not to have sex, but I will be kissing”.

Well… actually a lot of people claim nothing is wrong, yet thousands of people are falling sexual victim in per second billing.

Let me tell you: Kissing is as powerful as sexual intercourse.

Through kissing (whether, deep or long kissing), people achieve sexual climax and satisfaction even without sexual intercourse.

Now; if this is true… then mouth-to-mouth kissing is a sinful act much as fornication is. PERIOD!

In relationship, dating or friendship with someone, when you treat kissing as casual or nothing, it may lead you into the pit of sexual immorality.

Wisdom says that: whatever that will lead you into sin do not engage in it.

Be Wise… be Smart… Flee!

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor