How to Develop Confidence for Sexual Morality

³⁵ Therefore do not cast away your confidence, which has great reward. ³⁶ For you have need of endurance, so that after you have done the will of God, you may receive the promise”.                                      

                                                                                             (Hebrews 10:35-39)

 

A lot of people are struggling with sexual problems, ranging from masturbation, homosexuality, pornography, lesbianism, bestiality, pedophilia, child sexual abuse, rape, adultery, fornication, prostitution, abortion…just name it (of course the list goes on!)

Most sexual victims believe they can never be free from these struggles?

Some have accepted their fate and called it names like ‘nature’ ‘natural’ ‘hereditary’ ‘bloodline’ ‘foundation’ ‘curse’ ‘destiny’ ‘orientation’ ‘personality’ and so on.

Whatever you are going through now…does not matter as much as where you should be going.

ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING, so says World Leadership Expert John Maxwell

CONFIDENCE is the attitude that will take you to where you should be.

Question: “Where should I be?”

That place is called: SEXUAL PURITY!!!

Sexual Purity is the great plan of God for your spirit, soul and body. (Read 1 Thessalonians 5:23)

I am here to encourage you in the face of discouragement, depression, defeat and despair as a result of what you have gone because of the monster called sexual immorality.

I say to you: YOU CAN BE FREE!!! YOU CAN COME OUT FROM THIS HORRIBLE PIT!!! YOU CAN WEAR A NEW GARMENT!!! YOU CAN BE HEALED, DELIVERED, CLEANSED AND BE WHOLE AGAIN!!!

THIS IS A WORD FROM THE LORD FOR YOU!!!

It is time to silent the negative voice and embrace the attitude of confidence.

THE REWARD OF CONFIDENCE IS BEYOND YOUR IMAGINATION.

This confidence is not about arrogance, pride or foolishness.

It is about FAITH AND TRUST IN GOD WHO IS YOUR CONFIDENCE!!!

⁵ Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
⁶ In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Some things You Need to Do as you Prepare for Sexual Morality:

*Making Positive Affirmations about yourself: You can create their own list of affirming self-beliefs. They must be in the present tense, positive and practice saying them daily. And every time they feel that their self-esteem is falling, they can refer to this list immediately. This will help them build their confidence.

*Changing their mindset: The way a person think is how they will feel, so most bad feelings come from illogical thoughts ("distorted thinking"). So, if You can change how they think and think positively, they can change how they feel. How you think about yourself is how people will see you. Change Your Mind set.

*Prayer and The Word: Being more prayerful about yourself and praying to God to give you the spirit of boldness and high confidence can help build your self-confidence as a counselor. Prayer and the Word conquer all and are the greatest weapons. So, you can meditate on the Word daily and make positive declarations about themselves as they pray.

*Love: If you can begin to embrace the love of God and learn to love yourself, you can in-turn build their confidence. The Word of God says that, "there is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love"-(1 John 4:18).

Note: for free counseling session and also materials that we help you gain freedom and walk in sexual purity, you can contact me.

(This article is also supported by contribution from Destiny Nixon, a Sexual Morality Counselor based in US).

Rufus Elijah Yamoah

Sexual Morality Counselor

Confronting the Mountain of Sexual Immorality

“And it shall come to pass in the last days, that the mountain of the LORD'S house shall be established in the top of the mountains, and shall be exalted above the hills; and all nations shall flow unto it”.

                                                                                                --Isaiah 2:2

This is the time of Sexual Confrontation.

Believe me; we will no longer be intimidated by this monster called ‘sexual immorality.

We will no longer give our bodies to this task master.

We are tired of living in this house of bondage.

We shall arise…

Yes…we are arising, we are approaching and we are confronting!

What is Sexual Confrontation?

Sexual Confrontation is all about facing your sexual mountain and conquering it!!!

What is Sexual Mountain?

Sexual Mountain is the controlling power or influence that causes a person/people to be in the bondage of sexual immorality.

It is Time for spirit of ‘Moses’ and ‘Caleb’ to Arise

Moses knew that for him to bring deliverance to his people, he had to confront Pharaoh.

Sexual Immorality has been the ‘pharaoh’ and ‘task master’ that has kept people bound for years and destroyed millions of destinies.

But I say to you…

Arise and go…like Moses

You have the authority…the spirit of Moses…the Spirit of God…has come to help you.

It doesn’t matter the sexual struggle or mountain…It is time to confront and conquer.

Caleb does not see any difficulty or mountain anywhere.

Caleb does not get discourage or accept defeat.

Caleb is not afraid of any monster or giants…he sees his enemies as grasshoppers!

"Truly I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them”. (Mark 11:23)

Arise and speak to your mountain to give way.

That is the spirit of Caleb!

Here is the truth:

Without confrontation, there is no deliverance.

Without conquering, there is no inheritance.

Hear the Word of the Lord…

·         “The mountain of purity shall arise and sit above the mountains of sexual immorality”

·         “The rod of purity shall be given to people to destroy the serpents of sexual immorality”.

The Seven Mountains of Influence

There are Seven Mountains of Influence that is impacting and controlling our world today.

 Sexual immorality has become a very powerful weapon satan is using to hold and subdue the mountains of influence for evil and wickedness.

Here they are:

1.      Mountain of Family: (e.g. Incest has become a tool the devil has using to corrupt, pollute and destroy families and generations.

2.      Mountain of Education: (e.g. Sexual deception is tool whereby students are taught lies about sex and this has led many into pre-marital sex, unwanted pregnancy, STDs and so on. Negative Sex Education is a stronghold the devil is using to control this mountain.

3.      Mountain of Media: (e.g. Pornography and Sexual Abuse has grown in the media and it has become a tool and a gateway to capture and enslave many lives.

4.      Mountain of Entertainment/Art/Culture: (e.g. Sexual Festivals, Sexual Music, Dance and Movies that promote sexual activities and relationship. This Mountain has really perverted by satan.

5.      Mountain of Government/Politics: (e.g. Legalizing sexual perversion like gay relationship, abortion. Also, not having a strong fight/action against abuse. The Government has become satan’s tool to structure and strengthen the mountain of sexual immorality.

6.      Mountain of Religion: (e.g. Indecent dressing is a form of immorality and the devil is using to creep into religion (like the church) to make sure he controls this mountain. This is where we need to arise and protect our inheritance. Also, there is another practice called ‘Nudity Worship’ where believers come to church and worship God in absolute nakedness!!!

7.      Mountain of Economy/Business: (e.g. Pornograhy, sex toys, sex adverts and prostitution are powerful business and economic powerhouse the devil is using to influence this mountain.

You can now find out that sexual immorality is a powerful tool that is influencing the operation of the seven mountains of the world.

The Mountain of Purity

We believe as we confront with authority of God’s Word, we shall conquer by faith.

When shall establish the mountain of purity, then we will see a Sexual Morality World dream come true.

Join…hands…let’s build a sexual immoral free generation.

Rufus Yamoah

Sexual Morality Counselor/Purity Coach