Wednesday, February 20, 2013

The Merchandize of Sex

15 When Judah saw her, he thought her to be an harlot; because she had covered her face.
16 And he turned unto her by the way, and said, Go to, I pray thee, let me come in unto thee; (for he knew not that she was his daughter in law.) And she said, What wilt thou give me, that thou mayest come in unto me?
17 And he said, I will send thee a kid from the flock. And she said, Wilt thou give me a pledge, till thou send it?
18 And he said, What pledge shall I give thee? And she said, Thy signet, and thy bracelets, and thy staff that is in thine hand. And he gave it her, and came in unto her, and she conceived by him.     

(Genesis 38: 15 -18)


Your ability to negotiate wisely will determine your success in any business.
If you think I am lying, go ask Donald Trump!
Negotiation skills are one of the most fundamental skills every aspiring entrepreneur must have if he/she wants to succeed in business.

In our world today, Sex has become more valuable as a business commodity than for any other purpose—whether for recreation, reproduction or pleasure.

Sex is a merchandize. Sex is a commercial and business product.
Today, Sex Entrepreneurs are perhaps the richest dudes you can find in the society.
Expert Advertisers and Marketers in their concluding research claimed: “Anything that has a content of sex will definitely sell in our society!”

The merchandize of sex is one of the most corruptible and destructive practices in human history. 
Sex business is highly detestable and an abomination in the sight of God!
Prostitution is highly demonic! Selling sex materials and products that encourages sexual immorality (e.g. like condoms, pornography) is absolutely wickedness!

Sex was a priceless treasure given to the first couples (Adam and Eve) by God in the beginning of creation.

The bible says in Proverbs 6:26, “for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread…”

Satan has turn sex into becoming the cheapest product in the world. In fact, you can get it for free if you want it now. Easy and free! But don’t ask me how because I won’t show you!

The Worst Business Deal Ever

Let me ask you a funny question: “What would make you pay a million dollar for a dirty pant?
Maybe you would pay out of madness!

Sexual immorality is the worst business you can ever engage in.
Know this today: When you involve yourself in sexual immorality, you are merchandizing with the devil himself!
The truth is that when ever you negotiate with the devil, you will always come out as a failure and a fool!

I want to show you three products you sell to the devil when ever you engage yourself in sexual immorality of any kind.

Now, when you look at our above scripture, you will find out that Judah was negotiating a sex business deal with Tamar, a lady he thought to be a prostitute.
In verse 18 of Genesis 38 Judah said, what pledge shall I give thee? And she said, Thy signet, and thy bracelets, and thy staff that is in thine hand. And he gave it her, and came in unto her…

Like Judah, many of us do not recognize the value of what we possess and that is why we are ready and quick to give it away through sexual immorality.

Product 1: “Thy Signet”: The Signet represents our identity. The first property the devil want to steal from us is ‘who we are’ and what represent in God and Christ Jesus. We sell our signet when we engage in sexual immorality and we become abandoned by God.

Product 2: “Thy Bracelet”: The Bracelet represents our grace and glory. We were created with a special grace and glory so that we can excel and prosper in life. When we sell our bracelet through sexual immorality we will become unstable, wasteful and a failure in life.

Product 3: “Thy Staff”: The Staff represents your authority. When God created you He gave you a staff so that you can rule, lead and have dominion and victory in life. The devil wants to take way your authority and reduce you to a loaf of bread!
Don’t you think Judah gave too much for just a few minutes pleasure?
This is the worst business deal ever recorded in the bible.

Beware of the spirit of Tamar…

Through sexual immorality, the devil takes the three most significant properties given to you by God—your identity, your glory, your authority!

Follow not the way of Judah in the merchandize of sex.

Live the Sexual Morality Life

Rufus Yamoah
Sex Morality Counselor

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

The Foundation for Marriage Success



“If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?”
                                                                        --Psalm 11:3


The Power of Foundation

The life span, strength and hope of every building lie upon the foundation.
The foundation carries the highest task of a building.
Whatever affects the foundation determines the condition of the building
The foundation controls the building.

We all know that no building can stand or survive by itself. It relies and depends solely upon the foundation.

Meditate on this: “If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous (you) do?”

Different Kinds of Foundation…

If you observed carefully you will see that the above scripture did not say ‘foundation’ but rather ‘foundations’.
But WHY?
Because, a man life is consist of different kinds of foundations. Our life consists of several parts or divisions. We have the marital life, business life, academic life, spiritual life, social life, sex life, thought life, etc…
Every part of our life has it own foundation. This means that your business life has its business foundation. Your academic life has academic foundation.
But we are looking at your marriage life and its foundation.

The Foundation for Your Marital Success…

We want to consider the foundation for marriage success.
As a single, youth or teen…I ask you this question: “what foundation are you laying today for your marriage tomorrow?

Understanding the ‘BED’ Foundation

“Keep the bed undefiled…”--- Hebrews 13:4

What does it mean to keep the bed undefiled?
What does the ‘bed’ represent?

When Apostle Paul talked about the bed, he wasn’t trying to describe a four corner wooden and foam furniture! He was addressing the marriage foundation.
The Bed represents your marriage foundation.

The condition bed (I hope you know what I mean) will determine the outcome and success of your marital life.

Laying a Solid Marital Foundation

Your marriage or marital life is one of the most crucial and vital part of the human life.
Your marital life will have a direct and indirect effect on every area of your life.

As a single or a youth, you must strive to lay the right foundation before you enter into marriage.

**MARRIAGE IS A LIVING HELL WHEN IT IS BUILT ON A DESTRUCTIVE FOUNDATION**

The Secret of Success

“The way you lay your bed, so you will lie on it”, says a Wise Man.

***KEEP THE BED UNDEFILED***
This is the secret of success. It is the solution. It is the key to laying a solid marriage foundation.
When the bed is defile, your marriage foundation is destroyed.
Defilement breeds destruction.

Our bed is defile when we engage or live a sexual immoral life as a youth or single.
In our relationship, dating or courtship with our partners or lovers, we must do ourselves the greatest favor by abstaining from every form of sexual looseness, immorality and promiscuity.

Through sexual immorality, we releases and invites the spiritual enemies that will work to destroy our marital life.
Our bed is undefiled when we flee and abstain from sexual immorality and we are ultimately building a solid foundation for our marriage success tomorrow.

Remember this: “If the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do?”

Read books; attend seminars; listen to tapes, audio cds, and mp3; watch videos and DVD.
These things are good.
But…
Know this: INFORMATION GATHERING DOES NOT SCARE THE DEVIL FROM DESTROYING YOUR MARRIAGE; IT IS RIGHTEOUSNESS…

In all your learning, strive to live a sexual immoral-free life.
Protect your bed. Your bed is the seed of your marriage harvest.

Living the Life...

Rufus Yamoah
Sex Morality Counselor