How to Protect Your Destiny

“Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou came forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nation”.

                                                                                                --Jeremiah 1:5

Purpose and Destiny                                           

Purpose and destiny are perhaps the most important words you must focus your maximum attention to.

God is a God of purpose.

You are a product of purpose because you are a product of God.

God created you with a purpose and for a purpose.

Purpose is the intended reason or original intention God has in mind when He was shaping, forming and creating you.

Destiny is the reason why you are alive.

Destiny is what you are created for.

Destiny is the sum total of who you are and what you were born to be.

Destiny is living for God’s purpose.

Destiny is your divine vocation or business planted inside of you by God to be carried by you on this earth.

We were all created with a purpose and for destiny.

The Enemy of Destiny

It is a divine and absolute truth that your number enemy of your destiny is SEXUAL IMMORALITY.

Bill Newman once said in His Book, “if a youth can conquer sex, he can conquer life”.

I wholeheartedly agree with him.

The real enemy of our destiny is sexual immorality.

**Sexual immorality thwarts your destiny **

When you engage or live in sexual immorality you unleash a big monster to fights against your destiny release and fulfillment.

No sin works directly against man’s destiny like sexual immorality!

You never fulfill your destiny when you live a sexual immoral life.

Believe me or not. It’s the truth.

Sexual immorality prevents someone from becoming that which he was created to be.

Through engaging in sexual promiscuity, the demons and enemy of destiny is legally released by Satan to begin to work against the fulfillment of destiny.

Destroying Your Future

“For I know the thoughts and plans that I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts and plans for welfare and peace and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome”.

                                                                                                --Jeremiah 29:11

God has a good thoughts and wonderful plans concerning your future, dreams and aspirations in life. His plan is to make you a champion, winner, victor and an Achiever.

The number two evil sexual immorality does to one’s life, is that it destroys your future!

Sexual immorality forces God to drop His thoughts and plans He has concerning your future.

If you have concern for your future, you must seek to protect it from the destroyer called sexual immorality.

There is an enemy of our future. All they are concern about is about our past and present, but about our future. The devil knows that if he can destroy a man’s hope (his future) he can render man useless and powerless.

Becoming a Failure

Nobody is born to fail.

Failures are made and are not born.

**Failure is a spirit, it’s not a person**

There is one sure way that makes or renders you a failure…

And that is through sexual immorality!

Sexual immorality is the faithful failure-potter that makes real failure-vessels.

You must understand that it’s God’s divine pleasure and Will for you to become a success in every area of your life.

When you practice or engage in the life of sexual immorality, you rend into pieces your garment of success and invites the spirit of failure to cloth you with her garment of failure.

You must guide your destiny with all diligence and jealousy.

What makes you special, dynamic and even a target of many enemies, is your destiny (your calling and divine mission); it’s not your facial beauty or how much money, fame you have accumulated.

Your destiny is your treasure!

You must protect it from all the arrows of sexual temptations.

Your future and hope is the fuel that keeps your life moving.

Your success in life should be your utmost priority.

To win in life…you must begin to gaining freedom from the power of sexual immorality.             

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Coach

Making A Wise Choice

“…choose for yourself this day whom you will serve…”                   

                                                            --Joshua 24:15

Your Divine Privilege

When God created man He gave man many gifts.

One of the greatest natural gifts given to man is the ability to CHOOSE.

Man has a divine privilege to take decisions, set his own goals and give judgments.

Our ability to choose helps us to select and make choices whether they are good or bad.

Your Sexual Desire

Sexual desire is a natural feeling put inside a man by God during creation. This also is a natural blessing and something we must give God praise for.

There is nothing wrong about sexual desire.

Sexual desire is a feeling of a need or wants for sexual pleasure or satisfaction.

Without a desire for something, satisfaction and fulfillment cannot be derived when you have it.

Desire is a powerful force.

When it is not control, it takes control!

Apostle Paul understood the power of sexual desire and that is why he gave us the prescription of getting married as its only cure.

He said…

“Nevertheless, to avoid fornication (and all sexual immorality), let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.” (1 Corinthians 7:2).

You must understand that God never gives you a desire without a remote control for it. I mean, God gives us a boundary, a sense and a Will power to control our desires.

A desire without control will always lead to a crashing end!

The Uncontrollable Sexual Desire (USD)

An uncontrollable sexual desire is a desire for sex that burns like a red knife in a fire cutting through your heart and soul so strong.

U.S.D—I hope you know what I mean—is a passion and lust that controls and enslaves you against your will. It is highly demonic and manipulative in nature. It exercises total dominion over you.

It is this kind of desire Apostle Paul was talking about in Romans 7:16-20 (Please it will be better if you check it yourself).

U.S.D is not of God. Satan the devil is the father of all forms of sexual looseness, lusts and immorality.

Your Will Power vs. the ‘Sex god’

It is true and a fact that sexual desire is the highest and most powerful emotion known to mankind. But God has also given us a ‘Will Power’ and the ‘ability to choose’ as weapons to put this desire under his jurisdiction, custody and control.

When God created man He said man should have dominion (Gen 1:28 ) and that includes our sexual desires, lusts and emotions.

The devil is the one that releases the poison of uncontrollable sexual desire into our heart and this creates a lust and passion to engage in sexual activity against your will.

U.S.D enters your soul with a dangerous fire that burns you until you fulfill its desire, which is engaging in sexual immorality.

Whom Will You Serve?

Sexual morality is a choice.

Sexual immorality is also a choice.

Don’t you think it is time for you to put your Will power to work?

Don’t you think it is time to say no when your ‘libido’ says yes?

It is time to choose wisely!

Choose for yourself this day whom you will serve.

Will you serve the ‘sex god’?

Will you serve the ‘god of the flesh’?

Or you would rather serve your Creator, God and Father and begin to live a sexual moral life.

Remember, the choices we make today lay the foundation for our future and determine what we become.

Sexual morality…begins with you!

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Coach

Overcoming Sexual temptation

“For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world”.

--1 John 2:16

Behind every sex action there is a sex drive…a motivating force.

Behind every Sexual sin there is a sexual temptation.

Sexual temptation is caused by a sexual need.

And a sexual need creates a sexual desire.

And it is a sexual desire (which is lust) that leads to sexual enticement and temptation.

(Please you need to read James 1: 13-15 so you can get the real gist).

Sexual temptation is a natural as the air we breathe.

To say you wish that sexual temptation never come your way is like wishing for the eye to become a nose. Absolutely impossible!

As long as we are in this earth and in this sinful flesh, we will face and continue to face sexual temptations of different kinds, whether big or small, terrible or casual.

Remember, even Jesus Himself was tempted when he chooses to live in the human body.

**Sexual temptation is not a sin. It is only a vehicle that leads to sexual sin**

God did not say we will not be tempted, rather He said we must overcome temptations and live above them.

To overcome sexual temptation we must first understand its secret and how it operates.

Satan, the devil is the Father and source of all temptations—whether sexual or not.

When we know who our enemy is, it is very easy to wage war against him.

The devil has a secret.

This secret gives him the hedge to successfully carry out every form of sexual temptations on humans.

When we learn how he operates and where he is coming from we will overcome all his devices and tricks.

If you carefully learn this secret that I am revealing to you, you will gain real victory over the ‘sex god’ and all his temptations.

Here are three Needs Satan uses to tempt man into sexual immorality.

The knowledge of these needs will help you understand sexual temptation properly.

Need 1. The lust of the flesh:

This is the number need of man. This need is rooted in the human body. This need creates a desire to satisfy the flesh—which is the body.

One special food that satisfies the flesh more than anything else is sex.

The devil understands that sex is an irresistible need of the human body, and that is why tries all the time to present doorways through which man can fulfill this need.

Need 2: The lust of the eyes:

This is the second need of man. This need is rooted in the eyes. The human eyes graves for beauty, glory and good things. The eye is the doorway to the heart. Whatever the eyes found pleasure in the heart cooperates and tries to go after it. The eye and the heart work together.

Beauty is the true force behind every sexual charm, seduction and manipulation.

When a man is sexually captured or attracted by the beauty of a lady, it creates a sexual desire in his heart and this will drive him to fulfill that desire.

The devil understands that man is a natural slave to his eye and would strive to satisfy it at all cost, so he tries to offer opportunities for man to fulfill the need of the eye.

Need 3: The pride of Life:

This is the third need of man. The saying is true that ‘pride goes before a fall’. Satan himself was a victim of pride so he really knows how to operate with this weapon. I would like to point out that pride is more of a weapon than a need.

Humans were created to be personalities. There is a natural need in them to seek for achievement, records, honor, name and reputation.

It is the pride of life that makes man ready to do anything to fulfill this need. It is pride of life that makes a boy to rape a girl that has refuses his entire plea for sexual intercourse.

It is pride of life that makes ladies to commit abortion every day.

The devil has succeeded through pride of life to men to believe that they can also conquer through sex. And this has led to the invention of all kinds of performance-enhancing drugs to make men and women create a name for themselves in the sex world. Gush!

Even today, through pride of life, ladies are no longer proud to say or want to be virgins. The devil makes them believe that virginity is old fashion and a taboo for civilization.

The pride of life is really a weapon the devil using successfully against man.

Now you know where the devil is operating from.

So when he comes to you the next time with his tricks, you should be able to discern and judge which of the needs in you he his trying to play on.

Remember, understanding is the beginning of freedom.

To your freedom

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Coach

Destroying Your Glorious Body

“Shun immorality and all sexual looseness (flee from impurity in thought, word, or deed). Any other sin which a man commits is one outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.” 1 Corinthians 6:18, AMP

The first quick fact to establish in this article is for us to understand that sexual immorality is not just any kind of sin…

That doesn’t mean that we should engage in every other sin or treat them as minus or meaningless.

All unrighteousness is sin.

Every sin will separate you from your Father God and take you to eternal damnation!

For James 2:10 says, “ For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all”.

It is like the saying in the animal kingdom, “all animals are equal, but some are more equal than the others”.

All sin is sin—YES!

But all consequences of sin is not equal.

All sin will separate you from God.

But some sin effects are more tormenting, terrible and destructive to our life than others.

Believe it or not…it is the truth!

And this was the fact Apostle Paul was pointing out to us in 1 Corinthians 6:18. (I hope you have read this verse).

Sexual Immorality…And So What?

“…Any one other sin which a man commits is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against is own body.”

The puzzle question is …

What does it mean to sin outside the body?

What does it mean to sin against your own body?

Here is the Revelation!

You see, the human body is a special part in the creation of man.

The body carries a special divine glory.

This glory is placed on the body by your creator God.

That is why the Holy Spirit, which is the Spirit of God, wonderfully and carefully choose the body as His temple (house, dwelling place). (Read 1 Corinthians 6:19).

 Because of this, your body can determine what will come into your life…whether shame, reproach or beauty and good fortune.

But this depends on what you do with, or to, the glory of your body.

Every other sin does not touch or destroy this glory placed on the body, except SEXUAL IMMORALITY!

This is what it means to sin outside the body.

This is what makes sexual immorality different from all other sin man engage in or practice.

When you engage in sexual immorality, you sin not just against God, but against your own body.

How?

…Because you destroy the glory of your body in the process.

This is what it means to sin against your own body.

It is a great wickedness and evil you do to your body by destroying her glory, strength, pride and hope when you practice sexual immorality!

When your body looses her glory through sexual immorality, she has nothing again to offer you except to cloth you with shame, reproach and ashes.

Sexual immorality is a monster that takes away the garment of divine glory from your body and then cloth your body with the garment of ashes. (please you need to see Isaiah 3:24).

So many of us spend millions of naira and dollars yearly for the sake of caring for our bodies...

…But still engage in the LIFE OF SEX IMMORALITY!

What a painful irony!

This is outrageous foolishness.

The greatest gift and love you can express or show to your own body is…

 living a sexual-immoral free life, running from all forms of sexual looseness and promiscuity.

Beauty soaps, creams, jewelries, clothes…just name it, can make you look real good but has no power to protect the glory of your body.

Your body is your love, respect and care.

This can only be fully express when you protect her glory by abstaining from immorality.

You must from today change the way you see your body.

Your body is the temple of God—His heaven!

Your body carries a treasure that will determine your success and determine in life.

It is a fact that you increase your chances of greatness as you begin to treat your body as God would please.

To your freedom

Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor

Sexual Morality is Possible

How beautiful it is to see a sexual immoral free generation…

I have a DREAM…

…and that is to see a sexual morality world!

I hear a multitude of voices like many waters, shouting, “O Rufus! Your dream is really as a good as dead. It’s impossible…wow, not in the life time!”

You see, when the Lord first gave me this vision and His plan for His Children, you can be sure that I gave the same reaction!

The Lord told me, “Son, I desire to see a world where my children will no longer be tormented by the monster called ‘sex immorality’.

A GOD OF POSSIBILITY

When His disciples heard it, they were exceedingly amazed, saying, “Who then can be saved?

But Jesus beheld them and said unto them.

“With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible”

                                                                   --Matthew 19:25-26

IT BEGINS WITH YOU…

Do you remember the HIV AIDS commercial on TV that says, “To create an HIV free generation, it begins with you”.

Also, to create a sexual immoral free generation …it begins with YOU—Me!

Do you believe?

Jesus said unto him, if thou canst believe, all things are possible to him who believeth”

                                                          --Mark 9:23

Many have gone to say, “I can’t see myself living a sex immoral free life” “I have been committing this sin since I was 11” “I don’t know if I can survive without having sex with my girlfriend every three days”.

…whatever…which ever!

…ONLY BELIEVE…

That is the simple answer Jesus is giving you now.

You can survive, overcome, resist and triumph over the sex god if you can only believe.

Remember, Jesus said…all things- and that includes becoming sex immoral free!

To create a sexual immoral-free society…

….IT BEGINS WITH YOU!!!

P.S: This article is culled from my best selling sex morality ebook titled 'Understanding Sexual Doorways'.

Rufus Yamaoh

Sex Morality Counsellor